Answer:
The quality that is most evidently lacking is:
d. Open-mindedness
Explanation:
In communication (as well as in other areas and aspects of life), open mindedness refers to one's willingness to accept and appreciate differences. Open-minded people develop the skill to avoid stereotypes by acknowledging the existence of different views, ideas, cultures, behaviors, people etc. Open-minded people are, therefore, more flexible and less likely to dismiss chances to grow and learn from different people and situations. That is evidently lacking in David and Derek, who have "chosen" to not enjoy themselves and to not learn anything from the experience described.